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Soft Life in a Loud World
I didn’t grow up with a soft life. I had to choose it, create it, and grow into it, with shaky steps, quiet boundaries, and loud lessons. In this post, I share what soft life really looks like for women like us, healing, choosing ease, and building a life that feels like peace in the middle of pressure.
dithota84
Nov 144 min read


God, Growth & the Girl I’m Becoming
I’m not the same girl I was last year. And I say that with every version of grace and grit in me. Because it took real inner work to get here. Not the cute kind of work that ends with a quote on Instagram. I mean the kind that humbles you. That makes you question everything. That forces you to choose healing over hiding. And to be honest? I'm still choosing. Every day. Becoming her, one quiet step at a time. Becoming Her is an Inside Job There’s something about growth that’s
dithota84
Nov 53 min read


From Cape Town to Barcelona, and the One-Year Detour I Didn't See Coming
When love found me in Cape Town, I didn’t know it would lead me to a whole new continent. But moving from South Africa to Spain as a Nigerian? Whew. This isn’t just a story; it’s a guide, especially for those who want to relocate but don’t know where to start.
dithota84
Oct 104 min read


Urhobo, But Make It Global: Culture, Food & Vibes
This post is for anyone juggling multiple cultures, missing home food, and figuring out how to carry your heritage boldly while living abroad. I'm Urhobo, I live in Spain, and I’m making it global.
dithota84
Oct 13 min read


How I Balance Content Creation, Family, and Chaos
Content creation isn’t just aesthetics and reels. It's scheduling around tantrums, posting during nap time, and sometimes crying in the kitchen. Here's how I try to keep the balance between creating, loving, and living.
dithota84
Sep 232 min read


Things No One Tells You About Being a Wife Abroad
Moving abroad for love is not just a relocation — it's a rebirth. Here's what no one tells you about being a wife in a foreign country.
dithota84
Jul 183 min read


10 Simple Hacks to Create a Happy, Organized Home (Free Guide!)
Let’s be real—keeping a home organized can feel like trying to hold water in your hands. But it doesn’t have to be that way! You don’t...
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10 Tips for Traveling with Kids
Traveling with kids can be a wonderful experience filled with joy and togetherness. However, it can also be challenging at times. To help...
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Mar 4, 20242 min read


The Ultimate Guide to Family-Friendly Restaurants
The Ultimate Guide to Family-Friendly Restaurants Finding a restaurant that caters to the needs of both adults and children can...
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Mar 4, 20243 min read


How to Find the Best Adventure Destinations
How to Find the Best Adventure Destinations Are you an adventure enthusiast looking for your next adrenaline-pumping experience? Do you...
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Mar 4, 20242 min read
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